Ok guys, this was writen by my buddy Chris. He had a nasty breakup with his girlfriend of 2 years last August. He was the typical dumbass, just figuring that she’d come back because “she doesn’t know what to do without me” (his words, not mine). Well, he was way wrong. He saw her going into a club with her roommate, and 2 guys! Hahaha!! Well, she knew what to do alright. She got on the horse again and had her some fun 
Chris, on the other hand was beside himself. The first few days, he was like “man, she’s just checking to see if she can do this without me”. Whatever man, it’s your guitar, play it however you want.
Needless to say, after a few more days, he was really getting nervous. she hadn’t called, she hadn’t returned any of his emails. Hell, she even changed her email (I only know that because she and my wife were buddies). He started asking me what to do. I had no idea because I didn’t have that problem, I talk to my wife about everything. Always. I told him to ask our other buddies, check the library, check the web, etc.
I didn’t see him for a few days since i had to go out of town for work. But when I got back, he and his girl were happy as could be together. I didn’t know what happened. My wife didn’t know either. I asked him and that’s when he told me about the magic of making up. I asked, “what the hell are you talking about?”. That’s when he told me more about what he had done, and what it had made possible for him. I immediately asked him to write me something that I could share if anybody needed some help with this stuff. He wrote this letter below, and kept telling me that anyone that needs help with this needs to go to their website and check it out for themselves.
So, here you are. I won’t get in your way, and you need to just go check in out for yourself.
Are there ‘magic’ words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?
Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.
Strange but cool
I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from all of my friends that are trying to put their relationship back together. I only know because I happened to find this out by pure luck. I lost my girlfriend by being a total ass, taking her for granted, treating her like I really didn’t care, etc. I did care; I just didn’t know how to show it that she understood.
So I am going to answer…”How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?”
In the Magic of Making Up, they lay out a complete strategy. That’s my secret, I was floored! It worked so good, I now help my friends that have been cursed with the same problem as me, not knowing how to express our feelings to our significant others.
Check these guys out; they really know what’s up.
If you use this technique alone, without an ‘overall’ plan or strategy…you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
What NOT to Say!
Before we get into the actual words, let’s go over what message almost NEVER works. And worse…
Puts you in an AWFUL ‘psychological’ position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like
“John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.”
And the EMERGENCY-
“Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this.”
Now, I think you can see what’s wrong with both of those approaches? So, I won’t go on and on…
Use Curiosity & Self Interest to Your Advantage-
Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are:
*Curiosity &
*Self Interest
And here’s the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work ‘magic’
So…
Here’s what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
“Hi Sarah, its Mike. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
Sarah will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?” “What does he appreciate?” she will be thinking. And she feels good because it is a positive message.
Now…
Before you call you need to do the “Set Up”…which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing…but needs to be plausible.
But more importantly…
You need to have an underlying strategy like they lay out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.
Okay?
What I am saying is…
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.
Make sense?
Have a PLAN! Just check out www.themagicofmakingup.com
